听说爱情有四个阶段，熬过去就会永远在一起。
有位心理学家曾写道，一个成熟称得上真爱的恋情必须经过四个阶段，那就是：
共存 反依赖 独立 共生
之间转换所需的时间不一定，因人而易。
第一个阶段：共存。
这是热恋时期，不论何时何地总希望能腻在一起。
第二个阶段：反依赖。
等情感稳定，一方想多一点时间做自己想做的事，这时另一方就会感到被冷落。
第三个阶段：独立。
这是第二个阶段的延续，要求更多独立自主的时间。
第四个阶段：共生。
这时新的相处之道成形，你们已经成为最亲密的人。
你们在一起相互扶持、一起开创属于你们人生。
你们在一起不会互相牵绊，而会互相成长。
他（她）就像是你的亲人。
但是，好多人都通不过第二或第三阶段，选择分手。
其实很多事只要好好沟通就会没事，可是想太多和任性就是无法避免。
世界上遇到唯一的你多么不容易，能不能不要轻言放弃。
你发现了吗？
你们本没有相同之处，外表不相像，性格也是南辕北辙，
但是相爱然后在一起，
日复一日，年复一年，
你会惊讶你的眼睛竟有点像他的眼睛。
他的微笑竟也有点像你的微笑。
你们走路的步伐变得相似。
你们说话的语气也愈来愈像。
你们爱喝同一杯饮料。
你们的口头禅变得一样。
你们总能猜到对方下一句话是什么。
原来我们会变成我们所爱的人。
你在不知不觉中让他改掉了他爱皱眉的坏习惯。
这个改变，或许连他自己也不曾察觉。
他在不知不觉中让你变得做事不再马马虎虎。
你差点认不出自己。
会在不知不觉中逐渐变成对方理想中的人，
这种改变，绝对不是刻意的。
两个人相处时间越久，气质也越相近，
有一天，你惊讶地发现，
这样的你们多么默契。
或许再也遇不到这样的感情。
深深爱着一个人的时候，你原来真的会一点一点失去自己，
可是为什么你还会觉得快乐呢。
大概是因为你在失去的同时，也赚了，
你把他的气质和他的微笑都赚回来了。
朋友，你们走到哪个阶段了？
世界上遇到唯一的你多么不容易，能不能不要轻言放弃。
能不能一直走下去。
请不要说下辈子，
我多怕下辈子再遇不到你。
所以就这辈子，
就让我们一直在一起走下去……
（献给正走在一起的你们，要一直走下去哟~）
Under the umbrella of mass communication
Public Relation
What: Public relations (PR) is a field that concerned of the reputation of the orginization.
Who: Skilled publicist. Reputation protector. The one who able to spin the bad situation to the company’s advantage.
Why: Competitors are everywhere. Need to stand out from the crowd. Be more appealing and interesting to the public and the media.
When: Assist customer when they have any problems.
Where:Everywhere.
How: Able to present a company or individual to the world in the best light.
High level of communicating skill, multitasking, manages time well and understands how the advertising and media work is.
Advertising:
What: A form of communication to persuade the audience to response to your product, ideas, and services.
Who: Creative, plenty of ideas and people who good in imagination.
Why: Gain new customers and increase sales.
When: In everyday life, people come into contact with different kinds of advertising.
Where: Everywhere.
How: Approach to people through various types of mass communication. (Print ads, Broadcasting, Billboard…) Influence people thought and action. Able to plant the brand of the products, ideas, and services deep in the audience mind.
Broadcasting:
What: Radio, Television stations and networks.
Who: Broadcaster must be objective, clear and accurate.
Why: Giving information with fast, clear and simple.
When: -
Where: Everything through broadcasting media.
How: Discipline to their principles.
To be continue...
Traditional clothes =)
It is cross-cultural class. Frankly, this is the first time I wear cheongsam after I have grown up, well, except performance time la... haha,, Erm,, I felt quite uncomfortable at the first minute, and soon it comes with the SS feel after whilexD Although I do not have nice body figure, it looks perfectly nice on me!!!!! LOLXD
It is a cheongsam I bought at the airport. It costs me RM180!!!! Ewwwww!!! D: But this is what I manage to get for the cross-cultural assignment!! I do not regret after all. =p haha
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| Love this pic a lot <3 |
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| Act cool in traditional cloths -U- |
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| 1 Malaysia~~~ Where's my lovely Mogana??? |
muahahahah~
Thumbdrive
One day, my dad has passed me a thumbdrive for some information.
That time, me and my sister were together waiting for my father. When my sister passed the thumbdrive for me, my response was...
"So cute!"
My sister still remained her coolness, "ask dad give you lo..."
"No lah. Don't know whose thumbdrive."
When my dad came, my sister so helpful.
"Ba, jie say the thumbdrive very cute..."
"Oh..." My dad said.
Then he turned his face to me, "The thumbdrive is for you, you will need it in the future."
This is how my thumbdrive came from.
Unfortunately, it was lost after that.
But, I will still remember the story about my first thumbdrive.
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